Stacked
STACKED
by Alex Hardt, Associate Pastor – Youth and
Young Adults
I’ve heard it said
that a parent’s checkbook and calendar are clear indicators of their parenting
priorities. Go ahead and conduct an informal audit of both. -Walt Mueller (cpyu.org)
- 19% of full-time students earn
a bachelor’s degree in four years – NYTimes.com
- 36% of full-time students
complete there bachelor’s degree on time – NYTimes.com
- 30% of high school students
fail to graduate on time – psychcentral.com
- 38% of seniors in high school
drank alcohol last month – recoveryvillage.com
- 35% of seniors in high School
smoked marijuana – recoveryvillage.com
- 8% of kids are homeless
- 47,000 youth incarcerated on
any given night in the United States – data.burnsinstitute.org
STACKED ODDS
Our students face an increasingly stacked deck as they come closer to
adulthood. Students are facing challenges of drugs, media, alcohol, stress,
pressures, figuring out right from wrong, graduating, jobs, future, and so much
more. Many of our youth, as they approach adulthood, feel like they are
unprepared for what is ahead. A poll by the UK Health Foundation found that
less than 1 in 5 young people felt they were given the necessary tools to
succeed. They feel overwhelmed by the decisions that lie ahead particularly
when it comes to securing a strong financial future. The rate of drop out from
college is high, and the delay in getting a degree because of over crowded
classes, uncertainty in the job market, change in degrees, or other
circumstances has led to a $1.5 trillion debt crisis according to Forbes.com.
In entering adulthood more than half of young
adults surveyed by the UK’s Health Foundation say they lack the basic ‘building
blocks of life’.
“The Health Foundation in the UK has
identified four fundamental ‘building blocks of life’ that help young people to
achieve success in adulthood. Armed with these, the Foundation reasons, a young
person is well-equipped to navigate the adult world. These building blocks are:
- Emotional support in the form
of parents, friends, and mentors
- Having the appropriate skills
and education to pursue a career
- Personal connections and
networking opportunities
- Financial and practical
support”
- – Katherine Martinko
STACKED IN THEIR FAVOR
These statistics may sound a bit depressing at times but there is hope in all
of this as well. Parents, positive adults, and mentors were one of the key
elements identified in the UK Health Foundation study as something that could
positively determine the success of a youth. Basically, youth need adults!
Sounds a bit obvious… And yes, youth may push against adults, rebel at times,
and try to resist the teachings by adults, but they actually long for positive
attention from adults. Youth need adults who are willing to invest in them and
teach them right from wrong. They need adults who set boundaries, give them
guidance, and help them learn about who God created them to be. Youth need
adults to teach them how to balance a checkbook, do laundry, cook a meal, read
the Bible, and be righteous men and women of God. As a body of believers, we
have an opportunity to affect those within our community. We can look at youth
and say “Why don’t you have it all together?” OR we can walk alongside them and
show them the way.
Proverbs 4:10
Hear, my son, and accept my words, that the years of your life may be many. I
have taught you the way of wisdom; I have led you in the paths of uprightness.
When you walk, your step will not be hampered, and if you run, you will not
stumble.
This last month I loved how so many of the
adults within Covenant Grove stepped up to impact the youth within our community.
Within one week we had over 12 adults serving at a Middle School event called
Amazing Race and 8 adults (plus all the adult leaders from other churches)
serving at a High School event called Stacked Youth Night. Each week adults
volunteer to help in Kids Ministry, Youth Ministry, and Young Adult Ministry.
Wahoo! I love the heart of our volunteers and their desire to impress the word
of God upon our kids and youth. Thank you to all those who have committed to
helping our kids and youth grow into adults. I also celebrate the other adults
who are making an impact on our kids and youth. Thank you to those who help out
from time to time, thank you to those who help out with events, thank you to
those who drive our kids and youth, thank you to those who give words of
encouragement to our kids and youth, thank you to those who pray for our kids
and youth.
Each one of us can make an impact on the lives
of young people… Each of us has a choice… Each of us can choose to let the odds
stack against the youth or be stacked in favor of them.
WHICH WAY WILL YOU LET THE STACK TO FALL?
If all you have is little, share it. If all
you have is time, spend it. If all you have is water, offer it. Nowhere is it
written that making an impact is limited to extravagance. Instead we can make a
difference by giving of our time, talent, and treasure so it’s not so much what
you’ve got, it’s how you use what you’ve got.
– Author Unknown